Virtual Psychotherapy for Adults in Ontario - Overcome Anxiety, Depression & Trauma and Step Back into Your True Self

You don’t have to feel trapped by racing thoughts, heavy emotions, or the weight of past experiences. You’re not alone. I help adults in Ontario regain focus, feel safe in their bodies, and live life fully — from anywhere, virtually.

The

Resiliency

Effect

Psychotherapy

&Wellness

At The Resiliency Effect, I offer virtual psychotherapy for adults in Ontario, helping you navigate anxiety, trauma, depression, and other life challenges with compassionate professional support. My Goal is to help you feel seen, supported and empowered to make meaningful changes in your life.

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“Your authentic self is the most powerful source you have.”- Deepak Chopra

Covered by Most Insurance Companies

Daytime, Evening, & Weekend Availability

Registered in Ontario

Convenient Virtual Therapy Sessions

No Waitlist

The Struggles You’re Facing Right Now

Your mind and body are sending signals that something isn’t right. Here’s what life may feel like:

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Constant Worry & Tension

  • Racing thoughts and worries that won’t stop
  • Feelings of dread, heart racing, shortness of breath, stomach knots
  • Cancelling plans or missing work because it feels too overwhelming 

 

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Heavy Days & Empty Moments

  • Negative Self-talk: “I’m not good enough,” or “Nothing will get better”
  • Low energy or fatigue, feeling heavy or sluggish
  • Feeling stuck, unmotivated, or unable to complete daily tasks
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Lingering Pain & Memories

  • Feeling on edge, unsafe, or easily triggered
  • Difficulty trusting people or opening up emotionally
  • Overwhelming emotions or numbing feelings to cope
  • Painful intrusive memories 

 

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Why It Feels So Heavy

You may feel trapped, like your symptoms control your life. That’s not weakness — it’s your nervous system trying to protect you. Sounds contradictory, I know, but the truth is your body is wired to protect you from danger. Something is signalling to your nervous system, whether it’s your thoughts or present circumstances in life, that something is terribly wrong. The problem is, if changes are not made it will keep you stuck in a cycle of distress instead of healing. As a result, you may feel:

 

  • Trapped by your own mind and body.
  • Life is passing you by while you’re just trying to survive.
  • Confused or frustrated that nothing seems to help.
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You’re Not Alone

I’m here to support you with experience and proven strategies:

Wendy van Es, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

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I understand what it’s like to feel stuck, anxious, and overwhelmed. I’ve worked with many adults just like you, helping them regain calm and confidence.

Why Your Resilience Matters to Me

  • I see your resilience, even when you don’t.
  • I provide guidance and practical tools to help you manage anxiety, depression, and trauma.
  • I believe you can reclaim your life, and I’ll help you find that inner strength.
  • I’ve personally faced my own challenges and learned how to build lasting resilience, and I want to share the power of growth you.

Experience That You Can Trust

  • Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) specializing in adult virtual therapy.
  • Experienced in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Mindfulness, Compassion-Focused Therapy, & Brainspotting — approaches that reduce anxiety, lift depression, and ease trauma.
  • Experience helping adults reconnect with life.

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Your Path to Healing: 5 Stages

I provide a clear, step-by-step plan so you know what to expect:

1. Assessment — Seeing the Whole Picture

In this stage, we will gain a holistic view of the issue at hand.

We will also explore your strengths and values, ensuring that your treatment goals align with what you truly desire in life.

2. Safety & Stabilization — Regaining Calm

In this stage, we will work towards a trusting and caring relationship.

You will learn grounding techniques, develop coping skills, and feel steadier.

This is the stage where you will learn practical techniques that will signal to your body that you are okay, and there is no need for full on physical symptoms disrupting your daily life.

3. Processing — Working Through Pain

In this stage we will address the pain you’ve been holding.

We will process that pain by naming it and validating it by giving it the space to be expressed.

We will also do body work to ensure the pain you’ve been carrying is released from your body – you will get a chance to put down that heavy load that’s been draggin you down.

4. Presence & Self-Acceptance — Living in the Moment

This stage focuses on breaking free from negative thinking, self-criticism, and self-defeating beliefs. As you develop a more balanced view of yourself, others, and the world, you naturally cultivate greater self-acceptance and the ability to live fully in the present.

 

5. Resilience & Peace of Mind — Strength That Lasts

In this final stage, you’ll bring everything together—integrating your new perspectives and behaviours into everyday life. You’ve likely begun this process along the way, but lasting change takes practice, and I’ll be there to support you if any bumps arise along the way.

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The Results You've Been Looking For

Success isn’t just a dream—it’s the moment you take control of your life. You overcome the patterns that have been holding you back, make confident choices, and step into a version of yourself that thrives. This is the tangible, real-life transformation you’ve been working toward.

Imagine feeling:

    • Calm in your body instead of constantly tense or on edge
    • Able to sleep through the night and wake up rested
    • More connected to people you care about
    • Focused and motivated at work or home
    • Hopeful about the future instead of weighed down by the past

      I Can Help You Break The Cycle

      Are you tired of the same old cycle? This is where I step in.

      The quiet ache of not feeling good enough, the weight of old hurts you can’t shake, relentless tightness in the chest, alongside constant worry, aren’t small frustrations—they’re absolutely exhausting. When everything feels heavy, it’s easy to feel stuck in the same painful patterns. That’s where I come in: to help you find the relief you so deeply need.

      What Continues When Nothing Shifts?

      The Cost of Staying Status Quo:

      • Cancel plans and isolate yourself.
      • Stay stuck in racing thoughts or replaying memories.
      • Carry unwarranted guilt
      • Put goals and dreams on hold “until you feel better.”
      • Carry tension in your body as if it’s normal.

      You deserve better — you deserve to thrive.

      Take the First Step Today

      Therapy is a place where you feel seen, understood, and supported. Whether you want to reduce anxiety, process trauma, or lift depression, I can guide you.

       

       

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